Don't Judge People Yet. Make Sure You Understand The Story Before Making Decisions.

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I read a story online and learned a lot, but it's not easy. The story doesn't offend either men or women, but it gives us a reason to take life seriously. My husband always says our only son doesn't look like him. I wonder and it breaks my heart every time he returned to Nigeria last year in November, so we started planning to get the visa and join him. I found out from his brother that my husband was planning to do a DNA test on our son. I was devastated because I have never cheated on him. I allowed him to do whatever he wanted because a clear conscience doesn't fear any accusations. I saw my ex before I got pregnant, but we didn't have sex; we just had an affair and rubbing shoulders in the hood. The DNA result came out and my son is not his. I don't know how this happened; I just remember being given a kilo of blood during my labor period. I think that's when he interrupted my husband's labor since February ended. I am at my father's house with my son. My husband hasn't called or come to see us. I don't know what to do. Haha, the story is very painful, but this is not good at all. Some people are not good at explaining things, but life is far from that. It's easy to explain to them that when you lose focus, it's obvious there's something you'll never understand until you try to understand people. If you're married, make sure you are, but people make you feel bad and discourage you because most people don't like to see you happy for no reason.

I really learn from history and understand that sometimes people look like others and find it difficult because we don't believe ourselves. I don't understand why people can't believe that everyone has their own story to tell. Seriously, I learn from history, but it's not easy.I don't know if it's possible for someone to be born with a child who resembles someone else. Reading the story, I don't want to conclude that people can be innocent in certain ways or at certain times. If anyone reads or hears something like this, they'll conclude their girlfriend is cheating on them. I don't mean to say people behave in any way, because I don't know from what perspective they see it. I try to ask people questions, but everyone explains based on their understanding. I understand that people may see things differently. Thank you for your time and God bless you all.