Movie review: Modern Family || Underrated 😎

Whenever I remember Modern Family I can't stop but always still laughing and shaking my head about all the madness.

So Modern Family is one of those shows that feels less like you’re “watching TV” and more like you’re peeking through the blinds into somebody’s house. Like, you’re not supposed to be there, but you just can’t look away. It follows three families, but they’re all tangled up together: Jay (the old-school dad), his much younger Colombian wife Gloria, and her fiery son Manny; then there’s Jay’s daughter Claire with her husband Phil (the goofy, dad-joke king) and their three kids; and finally Jay’s son Mitchell and his partner Cameron, who are raising their adopted daughter.

The funny thing is—it’s not just the comedy that gets me, it’s how real the chaos feels. Like that episode where Claire is running for town council, and Phil decides to “help” by making one of his cringe campaign videos… I was dying of second-hand embarrassment. I swear, if I were Claire, I’d have strangled him right there. But then—Phil gives one of his unexpectedly sweet speeches, and suddenly I’m like, damn, this man’s a disaster, but he loves her so deeply.

And Gloria? Oh my God, Gloria. The way she screams at people in her heavy accent, threatening violence but also trying to be classy—it kills me. Permit me to say I fell more in love and addicted to the movie because of her character, Spanish accent and the way she always gets her English wrong 😁. There’s this one scene where she’s upset that Jay isn’t being romantic enough, so she’s yelling in Spanish while smashing something in the kitchen, and Jay just sits there with his whiskey like, “I don’t even know what I did.” And Manny—her son—acts like he’s 45 trapped in a little boy’s body, sipping coffee, writing poetry about heartbreak at age 12. That dynamic had me cracking up but also weirdly reflecting on how kids sometimes grow up too fast because of what they see at home.

And betrayals and crazy little turns of this family? Whew. Such as when Claire and Phil accidentally enter their daughter Haley at the most awkward time possible, and instead of being the cool parents that they believed they were, they simply panic out of control. Or when Mitchell and Cam begin squabbling about who is the more decent parent and as a result they lose Lily in a carnival. I had the feeling of my heart in my throat-I mean, I am laughing one moment, the next I am actually nervous about that little girl.

Then, the great emotive thwacks come up when you are least prepared. Similar to the wedding episode, with Cam and Mitchell, where everything that could go wrong, kept threatening to spoil their special day. I was snickering at the cows running away, the car stalling, Gloria running around screaming--but then when they finally said their vows I got the tears. It occurred to me how visible their love affair was, particularly at a time when same-sex marriage on TV did not have this sort of warmth shown to them. This was that sort of moment when I went, Oh sh*t, this isn’t just an entertainment piece, this is history with a laugh track.

To be quite honest, what really resonated with me is how Modern Family makes me evaluate my own family. You know, all of us have that mix of mess, affection, misunderstanding, and salvation. I, too, am stubborn at times like Jay. There are times when I am over controlling like Claire as well. And sometimes, embarrassingly, I’m Phil--telling jokes that no one thinks are funny except me. Seeing them is like contending in front of a mirror that makes you laugh at the imperfections in yourself, rather than crying about them.

So yeah, Modern Family is more than a sitcom to me. It is the therapy made to look like comedy. It is dirty, noisy, humorous and brutally true. And perhaps that is the reason it grates on me, because although I am bent over in laughter there is always that little pinch of reality: Uh-oh, that is me.

Do you remember when Jay has that health scare? The moment when the sometimes rough around the edges patriarch (who always dismisses emotions with a grunt or a sarcastic remark) turns out not quite so invulnerable? The entire family congregates and it is the first time in a long time, that the laughter dies away. Gloria is attempting to be strong, yet you can see her eyes move around as though she is picturing how life would be without him-and it feels like it punches you in the gut. When Manny takes a step forward, fumbling around and trying not to make a big deal out of it, to distract her, that was one of those scenes where I just had to hold my breath and think, man, these two can be the most frustrating people ever, but they can not live with each other.

Or what of that episode where the mother of Phil dies? That one crushed me Phil, the perpetual doofus, the dad-joke generator, now completely devoid of his comedic stunts, is just plain silent sorrow. He reads through the letter she left him, and you can not be hard enough to not feel that pain. When he attempts to impart his knowledge to his children, intoxicating them with his goofy affection and her last request, it was as if the entire tone of the show changed slightly out of time. The episode stayed with me because it reminded me of something we do not often consider when we laugh at their adventures: time passes, people go, and families have to cling to each other with the losses.

Then there are the big rare all-in family moments- the ones that sneak up on you after the chaos. As it was when Haley was in the hospital, and all of them came, with their legs in the wrong place and their voices too loud, but you could tell they were scared to the bone. Or when Mitch and Cam finally adopt Lily, and the entire family, despite all the joking, jammed hugs and minor drama, wraps around them with this unspoken feeling of, we are a family. At those times it was like a gut-check. You could laugh one moment at Cam being so dramatic and the next moment you could find yourself fighting back tears because you understand- that is what it means to have a place, to have people who will not give up on you no matter how bad things are.

These are the episodes that stuck in my chest as far as Modern Family is concerned. It was a brilliant comedy, sure. The riot was fun. Yet the heartbeats were those rare silences--the waiting rooms of hospitals, the funerals, the departures--those were the heartbeats. They reminded me of how even the funniest, loudest families still live under the same truth that we all live under: love is fragile, people are mortal and laughter often masks how afraid we are of losing each other. Perhaps that is why I kept returning there, it was not only the jokes. It was about being reminded that, despite all the noise, everybody is just desperately trying to hold on to their people as long as they can.

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